Mediation FAQ's

Mediation Frequently Asked Questions

What is mediation?

Divorce mediation consists of a mediator and both spouses.  The mediator does not make any decisions for the spousal parties nor do they advocate for either party.  The mediator may, however, assist them in making agreements.  The goal of mediation is to satisfy both parties as much as possible and to have an amicable and efficient divorce.  It is helpful for those who would like to maintain a civilized relationship with their spouse.  A New Jersey mediation lawyer from The Law Office of Steven P. Monaghan can answer further questions about this process.

Who will protect my rights during mediation?

Because the mediator is not to take sides with either spouse, many choose to consult with an outside attorney on mediation matters of concern.  It is advisable that you become completely aware of your rights prior to mediation.  Reviewing the settlement before it is signed may be particularly helpful.

Why is mediation preferred by many over litigation?

Many families are choosing mediation over litigation because it is far less expensive, more conducive to maintaining a civil relationship, and the agreements are more likely to be adhered to because the partners themselves create them.  For some, mediation is not an option due to the fact that the other spouse is not willing to mediate or other similar circumstances.  The legal team at the firm can assist in all types of divorce matters, both amicable and contested.

How do I know that the mediator will be fair?

The mediator does not make any decisions for the spouses rather the spouses decide on agreements that are most suited to their situation.  The mediator can assist a great deal in helping both parties to come up with an agreement that both can accept and carry out. 

At the Law Office of Steven P. Monaghan, we are dedicated to helping families through divorce proceedings with as little stress and emotional upset as possible.  Our experience and knowledge in family law allows us to do just that. Please call us if you have any questions.

Contact a Mediation Law Attorney from our firm today if you have any questions about mediation or are wondering if it is right for you.